
Today is Xiao Wang a.k.a Chee Guan's marriage day (31st March). He invited Sabby a.k.a Sebestian, Xiao Hei a.k.a Tan Rui and me as his brothers, of course with Irene tagging along. All of us have our role to play and we had aligned the tasks during last week meeting. We meetup at Xiao Wang's parental home at 7am and set off for his wife's parental home.
The drive was pretty short as we traveled from Pasir Ris to Tampines to pickup his wife. Both Sabby and I drove our cars to follow the wedding car, which was the 'Subaru Legacy'. This is something new, thought most people would choose Mercs, BMWs or Jaguars...Anyway, check out the car plate number, 7573. Xiao Hei who was in my car, insist that we buy this set for the weekend. We were planing to make time in the afternoon to go buy some 'opportunity to strike rich'. Traffic was dense throughout the journey, of course, who want to wake up so early on a Saturday. The ride was only about 10 min and it could be faster if not for the convoy.
Xiao Wang's door was opened by a small boy, and was given an 'ang bao' for that. It reminds me of the time when I opened the door for my brother-in-law. I told him to wind down the window first and hand me the 'ang bao' to check the price before I agree to open the door!Finally, its time to go up to fetch the bride, whom we need to wrestle from the evil, money greed-sicken sisters. As usual, playing games that completely humiliate manhood, who invented such things? Why do they have to make things difficult for the guys? Doesn't mean through this, the man will treasure his wife?

Anyway 1st quiz, what is the sum of your wife age and the number of months you have been together. "Can't help you!" is the 1st remark that we brothers made. What to do, these are question to test the guy's memory which most do not have it. So, what is the consequence for guessing wrong? Push-ups! Remind me again, why did we agree to be his brothers?

After the mindless games, eating wasabi on stick cracker and bribing with 'ang baos' to the sisters, we finally breached the first gate. Nothing new, there is always this 2nd gate. This time its up to the bride groom, the brothers can only rest while waiting.Xiao Wang had to sign a 10 commandment contract and recite the contents to his wife, with regards to, you know, 'my $ is her $, her $ is her $' and 'I shall bring her for oversea holidays thrice every year' and etc. The woman strikes two, the man's pride dropped by another 1 point. Someone should stand up and stop all these nonsense. But who? Not me, I'm busy with the drinks, too thirsty with all those shouting and cheering. The other two brothers had their time already and were immue to it.
Finally, Xiao Wang got his wife out of the room. Then they began with the tea ceremony with the bride family and relatives. This is the time where the newly wed couple serve cups of tea to their elderly while kneeling down. Lucky it was pretty short as there wasn't much relatives from the bride's side. Guess its because most of her relatives are in Malaysia, yep she was Malaysian.A round of applause for the Man of the Day.
Next, we set off to Pasir Ris Park (Fisherman Village) for a photo shoot. The weather was getting warmer and most of us were getting tires and restless. The most pitiful persons should be the wedding couple, as their clothes were thicker than ours. Irene and I had to participate in the flower throwing game. The rest of the brothers and sisters are all married, so its left to Irene and me to do the job. Luckily I managed to catch the back thrown flowers, that save a lot of embarrassment as there were only 2 person standing behind the bride.
The remaining journey of the day were going back to their new home in Pasir Ris for "Dian Teng" which means switching on the bed lamp that suggest bringing kids into the family. After which we went to Xiao Wang's place for the tea ceremony to Xiao Wang's family and relatives. By the time we finish all the stuff, it was already 2pm plus. The newly weds drove to the Grand Plaza Hotel on their own while the rest of us went back home to rest before the dinner.No Summon, told you the ribbons works!



















